tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1593692349219428448.post2843423946303101782..comments2014-01-20T03:16:24.874-08:00Comments on Little Thoughts and Lovely Things.: Can I Have Both Please?Little Thoughts and Lovely Thingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01555538644230397745noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1593692349219428448.post-16398019827824056412009-05-27T13:28:55.425-07:002009-05-27T13:28:55.425-07:00I can understand the lure of a relationship, but s...I can understand the lure of a relationship, but sometimes it can be used a a crutch. I had consistent relationships from when I was 15 until 20! <br /><br />Though at times I feel like having a companion would be really nice, I have to remember that sometimes you have to fully know yourself without a significant other. Over the past year I have been doing that and I am at a point where I don't even want to be in a relationship. <br /><br />Being without a boyfriend has allowed me to be selfish (but not in a bad way). I spent too long wondering about how he felt, or what I could do to make him happy even though sometimes my happiness was not any concern of his. I have allowed myself to say what would make me happy (outside of a boyfriend) and I found a whole host of things that allow me enjoy being single. <br /><br />They (whoever 'they' are) say that when you are least looking for a relationship it will happen - and I firmly believe that. Get to know your new city and all the people in it! You're guy is out there, but if you go looking for him - he'll seem like he's in hiding lol.unequivocal differencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08606172002056149215noreply@blogger.com